Oral Sex - all you should know and... more
Oral sex prolongs relationships but it is only a variable, of course, in a complicated equation. BUT, the fact is that if your lover would like to receive oral sex and you do not do it, your relationship will suffer. Your partner (man or woman)
will develop strong fantasies, he or she will use their hand (in the best case for you) to get satisfied, you can be sure of that.
On the other hand, your lover might not like to receive oral sex or he or she might not like how you do it. So, first of all, you must find the exact answer to some critical questions, and, in addition, your lover must find the answer to this: how good and erotic CAN be oral sex and how much of the pleasure they really tasted by now.
Oral Sex Manual
In the following short manual, we will offer you the most important ideas, techniques and advices about how to give oral sex.
- Oral sex is really fantastic when it is done at the right moment. The best moments are:
- 1. After a short foreplay and before intercourse (oral sex for woman);
- 2. If the man gets tired or hard to go further with normal sex (this will be a good break for him);
- 3. If the man finishes before woman, he should continue to keep her excited until he is ready to get back into action;
- 4. At the end of the intercourse right before the man ejaculates (dirty oral sex for the man).
- Oral sex can be made extremely fun and erotic with the following ideas and methods:
- Take your lover by surprise. When your lover is busy around the house and do not think of sex at all, close to him/her, prepare a bit your next step (otherwise you might find that the moment was really bad) by kissing, caressing, and all of a sudden, take off their pants right there and do oral sex to your woman or man. Do not stop until he or she climaxes.
- Please and tease. Offer your lover a long massage and from time to time, offer them oral sex for no more than 15 seconds, then stop and return to your massage for a few minutes, then go back to oral sex and so on. Be sure that this technique will make your lover (man or woman) go crazy.
- Love what you do. When you eat your girl's pussy, do it as you would eat the best dessert ever. Or, when you offer your man a blowjob, love his penis, suck it like the best candie. Always be playful - your lover will enjoy your mouth on their erogenous zones much more when you are a 'little' crazy. When you love what you do, your partner will know it and their inhibitions will diminish and their readiness will increase to high peaks.
- Music, Lights, Scents and Senses - all these will play their role when you want to change the routine. Yes, you can wear a strong and different perfume one day, you can put on some erotic soundtracks another day, you can give oral sex under the sheets or after you chewed mint gum...
- Play games. Take our best collection of games for couples, The Magic Games, or play our weekly free foreplay games and you will turn a simple thing like cunnilingus or fellatio into something extremely erotic that your partner will never forget and they will want to offer you the same pleasure.
Find out the Secrets
Beside your efforts to offer a great oral sex to your partner, they will might have secrets, inhibitions, things they will never dare to tell you. It might be the same for you... Well, there is a sure method to find out what's in your lover's mind and, the same, an easy, fun way for you to dare saying what's in your mind. Again, this is by playing games! There are quizzes sprinkled through the games at moments when the heat between you and the desire to speak dirty is high - the games will help you say and find out secrets that were a taboo before.
Relationships and oral Sex
As we said, oral sex may improve relationships but the lack of it surely harms the erotic normality between the partners if one of them wants something and the other doesn't.
What about married couples? It is exactly the same and even more. When you are married, you have ONE woman or man, so you must do everything for your spouse or husband. You can think of it as the marriage would mean you entered a prison and your wife or husband is the only person of different sex from there. Think of your partner as other prisoners would give her or him a fabulous oral sex if you do not do it...